The Ultimate BDSM Checklist

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Tried? Rate your Pleasure of that Activity:

1 = disliked intensely, 2 = gave no pleasure, 3 = was ok, 4 = liked it, 5 = extremely enjoyed.

Would you Like to Do it (again)?

Never = a hard limit, No Desire = a soft limit, Maybe = if under the right conditions, Yes = absolutely, Need = this really turns you on and you can't live without it, Forced = if you were forced to you (might) like it.

Pass/Undecided = You are unsure at this point if this is something you would like to try.

Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Bondage
Arm and Leg Sleeves ("Armbinders")
Breast Bondage
Blindfolds
Bondage – Light
Bondage - Heavy
Bondage - All Day/Multi Day
Cages/Cells/Closets (Locked Inside Of)
Chains (Bound With)
Chastity Device/Belts
Collars - Worn In Private
Collars - Worn In Public
Cuffs – Leather
Cuffs – Metal
Cuffs - Handcuff Style
Ear plugs (Sound Deprivation)
Gags – Ball
Gags – Bit
Gags – Cloth
Gags – Inflatable
Gags – Phallic
Gags – Ring
Gags – Tape
Harnessing – Leather
Harnessing – Rope
Hoods (Full Head)
Immobilisation
Leash
Leather Restraints
Manacles & Irons
Mummification
Muzzles
Rope Bondage – Simple
Rope Bondage - Intricate (Shibari)
Spreader Bars
Stocks (Head & Hands)
Straight Jackets
Suspension – Upright
Suspension – Horizontal
Suspension – Inverted
Sleep Sacks
Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Bodily Fluids and Functions
Chamber Pot Use
Creampie
Cum - In Ass
Cum - In Mouth
Cum - In Vagina
Cum - On Body
Cutting - Blood Play
Golden showers (Urinate On)
Human Toilet
Injections (Saline)
Milking (Made To Produce Breast Milk)
Pearl Necklace (Cum On Chest/Throat)
Pearl Shower (Cum On Face)
Scat (Brown Showers)
Swallowing Semen
Swallowing Urine
Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Fetishes
Boot Worship
Cock Worship
Corsets
Cross Dressing
Diapers
Foot Worship
Gas Masks
High Heels (Wearing)
High Heels (Worship)
Leather (Wearing)
Lingerie (Wearing)
Pussy Worship
Rubber/Latex Clothing (Wearing)
Slutty Clothing
Spandex Clothing
Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Humiliation
Forced Dressing
Forced Feminization
Forced Homosexuality
Forced Masturbation
Forced Nudity
Forced Servitude
Humiliation In Private
Humiliation In Public
Lecturing For Misbehaviors
Shaving Head Hair
Shaving Or Depilation Of Body Hair
Standing In Corner (Punishment)
Verbal Humiliation
Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Impact & Rough Play
Replace
Breast Whipping
Caning - English
Caning - Sensation
Face Slapping
Punching
Pussy Punching
Pussy Spanking (Smacking)
Pussy Whipping
Riding Crops
Spanking - Hairbrush
Spanking - Hand
Spanking - Leather Slappers
Spanking - Wooden Paddles
Spanking - OTK (Over The Knee)
Whipping - Belt
Whipping - Cat O' 9 Tails
Whipping - Flogger
Whipping - Single Tail
Wrestling
Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Intamacy
Hand Holding
Hugging
Kissing (Body)
Kissing (Mouth)
Public Affection
Romance/Affection
Sleepover
Spooning
Using Real Names
Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Non-Monogomy
Fantasy Gang Rape
Group Play - Multiple men "Gang Bang"
Group Play - Multiple Women & Men
Group Play - Orgy
Shared (Given To Another Only Temp)
Swapping (With One Other Couple)
Swinging (Multiple Couples)
Marking
Branding
Scarification (Cutting, Making Scars)
Scratching
Tattooing (Inking)
Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Role Play
Abandonment (Fantasy)
Age play (Not Pedophilia)
Animal Role play
Auctioned For Charity
Fear Play
Free Use
Human Puppy-Dog Play
Infantilism (Baby Play)
Initiation Rites
Interrogations
Kidnapping
Medical Scenes
Name Change
Pony Play
Psych Ward Play
Prison Scenes
Prostitution Fantasy
Religious Scenes
Schoolroom Scenes
Sleep Play (Somnophilia)
Switching Roles (Top/Bottom)
Total Power Exchange (TPE)
Other Role playing
Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Sensation Play (Non-Impact)
Abrasion (Scraping, Sanding)
Asphyxiation
Ball Stretching
Biting (Being Bitten)
Beating (Hard)
Beating (Soft)
Breath Control (Choking)
Breath Control (Mild Restriction)
Clamps - Labia/Clit Area
Clothespins
Dilation
Electricity - Internal (Egg or Probe)
Electricity - TENS Unit
Electricity - Violet Wand
Enemas - For Cleansing
Enemas - Retention/Training
Finger Claws
Fire Cupping
Fire Play
Hair Pulling
Hot Wax - Dripping On Body/Genitals
Hot Waxing - Hair Removal
Ice Cubes
Kicking
Knife Play (Blood Drawn)
Knife Play (No blood)(Sensation)
Needle Play
Nipple Clamps
Nipple Piercing
Nipple Play - Pulls, Tugs, Twists
Pain - Mild
Pain - Severe
Piercing (Permanant)
Piercing (Temporary)
Punishment Scene
Riding The Horse (Crotch Torture)
Scratching
Sensory Deprivation
Sleep Deprivation
Strapping (Full Body Beating)
Suction Cups
Teasing
Tickling
Vampire Gloves
Water Torture (Waterboarding)
Wartenburg Pinwheel
Zippers - Clothespins
Zippers - Clamps
Zippers - Needles
Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Service & Restricted/Controlled Behavior
Bathroom Use Control (Permission)
Begging
Chauffeuring (Driving)
Chores (Domestic Service/Housework)
Chosen Clothing For
Chosen Food For
Contract Slave
Daily Diary
Exercise - Forced/Required
Erotic Dancing
Eye Contact Restrictions
Following Orders
Gor Slave Training (Positions)
Harems (Serving With Other Subs)
Hypnotism
Kneeling
Manicures
Mantra and Meditation
Massage
Pedicures & Foot Massages
Personality Modification
Phone Sex
Rituals
Serving As A Maid
Serving As Furniture
Serving As Art
Serving Other Doms (Supervised Only)
Speech Restrictions (When, What, To Whom)
Uniform (Wearing)
Wearing Symbolic Jewelry
Weight Control
Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Sexual Activity & Penetration
Anal Beads
Anal Play
Anal Plugs - Small
Anal Plugs - Medium
Anal Plugs - Large
Anal Plugs - Public, Under Clothes
Anal Sex
Bestiality (Sex With Animals)
Breast Fucking
Catheterization
Cunnilingus (Giving Oral To A Woman)
Cunnilingus (Receiving Oral)
Dildos - Anal
Dildos - Oral
Dildos - Vaginal
Double Penetration
Fantasy Rape Play
Fellatio (Oral Sex On A Penis)
Fisting - Anal
Fisting - Vaginal
Genital Sex
Masturbation
Orgasm Control
Orgasm Denial
Sex Machines
Sexual Deprivation
Sybians
Sounding
Speculums
Strap-On-Dildos (Sucking On)
Strap-On-Dildos (Penetrated By)
Strap-On-Dildos (Wearing)
Triple Penetration
Vibrator - Anal
Vibrator - External Genital
Vibrator - Internal Genital
Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Surrealism
Alien
Furry
Futanari
Monster/Beast
Tentacles
Transformation
Voyeurism/Exhibitionism
Examinations
Exhibitionism (Friends)
Exhibitionism (Strangers)
Forced Nudity (Private)
Forced Nudity (Around Others)
Modeling For Erotic Photos
Outdoor Scenes
Video (Watching Others)
Video (Recordings Of You)
Voyeurism (Watching Others)
Voyeurism (Your Dom W/Others)
Activity Tried? Rate Would you like to try or do again? How?
Other Activities
List any allergies that others should be aware of.
This may include allergies to: Latex, grass, food, scents, oils, lotions, wool, feathers, etc.
Any medical problems/issues? (if yes, give details:)
Do you have any known STI's?
When were you last tested?
What is your safe word/words?
Any specific subject not described in this list that should be discussed? Describe:
Fantasies:
Comments:
Questions:

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